Morally confused about ism.. Dont know what to do?

just because you were the cheerleader does not mean you have to be happy with the jock, you poor thing, i could not imagine going throught my whole life never enjoying and never loving the person i was with just to please some one else, be it a husband church family whatever. I say start living you life girls, why exist when you can live? this is the one shot you are going to get (ok i know you are religeous but imagine for 1 min that there is no after life, because we're here now and that is all we know for sure!) how would you feel if you got to your last day and you had not been happy for any of it, what a terrible waste. live you life be happy and good luck to youin everything you do